How many of us ever caught in a never ending quarrel with someone? They accused us for not hearing them well, thus the misunderstanding came.
We might have heard them well, we might have not. We might have heard them the only things we want to hear, we might have heard everything.
Left and right ears are only the receptions of sound. It’s brain that process the signal into some useful information. Ears might have received them correctly, but brain refused to process them as a whole.
Why? Because we have feeling. There are things that we want to hear, probably those that make us happy. There are things that we dont want to hear, usually those that make us unhappy.
Hear things as they are. Dont just hear things that we only want to hear. Hear them all, process them all, and be honest with the resulted information.
It’s never a good thing to keep something hidden. Because it will come up to the surface in the end.
But if we already hear them all and still accused being misunderstood? Maybe we need to check our eardrum to the doctor. 😉