When Boys Say “We’re Over”

24 Aug

When commenting on our friend’s on-off relationship, I remember a friend of mine said,

“Whether or not a relationship will still be going on, mostly it depends on the guy. If the guy says, they’re over, no matter how hard the girl wants them to be in a relationship, it won’t happen. If the boy says, they aren’t over, no matter how bad the girl wants them to break up, they will still be an item”.

Based on this knowledge, I let a guy into my life. Correction, I thought he’s a guy, he’s actually still a boy, more or less. It’s not a bad thing though, if you want and or need more dramas in your life.

What’s the difference between them? When a guy says to his partner that their relationship is over, it really means they’re over. When a boy says so, he doesn’t really want them to be over, he just say the word of ‘over’ lightly, because… I don’t know. Can you please cooperate that with me?

It’s one funny thing, actually. Because when a guy says he’s over with his partner, he’ll move on. When a boys says so, he’ll ask his partner to be back to him, eventually, by the time being. So what does the boy really want? What does he really mean? I seriously have no idea.

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When you’re in a relationship with that kind of guy, you’ll respect your relationship, and the guy more over, because the word of ‘over’ is sacred to both of you. As sacred as the word of ‘talak’ in a marriage, due to my religion. No matter how many the wife says that word, the marriage will still be going on. Different story if it’s the husband who says so.

When you’re in a relationship with that kind of boy, bless you girl. Please kindly share your experience with me. Do you also feel like having a relationship with a teenager, like I do?

P.S.: Dear you, I’ve accepted you the way you are, I’ve compromised enough with it. But I don’t think I can take that any longer, when it’s not worth trying. Because you don’t respect us, more over you don’t believe in me.

There’s no other guy, I do still love you. But I can’t be in an unhealthy relationship anymore. I’ve learned alot from you, it’s true like you said in your notes, that’s why I really thanked you for that. And I’m still thanking you, until now.

I’m done with having Teenage Dream as the soundtrack of my life in the past few months. Let’s grow up now. 🙂


11 Responses to “When Boys Say “We’re Over””

  1. Winnie August 24, 2011 at 3:01 pm #

    Horee akhirnya nulis lagi… lg galau ya ..hehe… wish you the best 🙂

  2. maminx August 26, 2011 at 5:27 pm #

    wah sekembali nya menelurkan tulisan tentang cinta dan patah hati ya. tapi tetep semangat atuh masih banyak disana yang lebih dewasa & cocok untuk nadia. amin..semangat

  3. Ifan Jayadi September 1, 2011 at 7:53 pm #

    Ketika pria menyatakan hubungan telah berakhir, maka si wanita harus tegar dan jangan mudah menyerah kalah ya 🙂

  4. adizone23 September 1, 2011 at 10:18 pm #

    kalo ngomongin “love” apalagi kalo masalah “broken-heart” kayaknya memang gak bakal habis nya karena perasaan tiap orang berbeda.
    ambil hikmah dan jadikan pengalaman untuk menjalin hubungan dengan seseorang dikemudian hari.

    semoga cepet move on ya, nad…

  5. elrica September 2, 2011 at 8:23 am #

    When the guy said its over.
    Leave him..so what!
    it’s gonna be his lost ^^

  6. sepri September 7, 2011 at 2:14 pm #

    hey you, first time coming here after so long..
    i can’t believe thet you have such a great post in english, i support you to do more…
    don’t forget to come to my site,

    newbie 😀

  7. dhila13 September 9, 2011 at 2:47 pm #

    when he said that, she’s stronger, became stronger.

    Mohon maaf lahir bathin dari dhila13 ya 🙂

  8. alice in wonderland September 9, 2011 at 3:57 pm #

    Cheer up dear… Emang gak bisa terus2an berada dalam hubungan yg gak sehat, lama2 kitanya jadi gak bener juga 🙂
    Eniwei, mohon maaf lahir batin yach
    Salam hangat dari Wonderland

  9. dieka September 11, 2011 at 10:20 pm #

    nulis galau juga ternyata,, 😀

    yah,,, semangat laahhh 😀

  10. alinaun September 15, 2011 at 3:21 pm #

    sabar, ya Nad 🙂

  11. inin2112 October 12, 2011 at 5:36 am #

    aku mau comment ya kaak.. *telat banget, memang..
    everything’s gonna be alright 🙂

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