A Talk About Marriage

5 Apr

Do you know what I hate the most about Indonesian Traditional Wedding Ceremonies which are unfortunately have been held quite a lot lately in my neighborhood? The musics. Not to mention the traditional clothes also. Oh I couldn’t imagine myself wearing those kind of clothes, never ever again. I had been foolishly wore the clothes when I was a kid, but that was all. No more me in traditional clothes I hope.

Minangnese Traditional Wedding Clothes

Javanese Traditional Clothes

Enough with clothes, lets back to the reason why I write this post. Yesterday, another traditional wedding ceremony had been held in my neighborhood, Sundanese traditional wedding ceremony to be exact. It doesn’t mean that I didn’t hope for the best to the newly wed couple, I do. I hope the couple would live happily ever after until death aparts. I’m really sorry to say this, but.. their music banged my ears yesterday and the day before.. all the time. Yes, not only at the day but also after midnight when people were supposed to sleep soundlessly. I couldn’t. Yeah.. thanks to the musics.

I admit that I don’t usually hear any kind of traditional musics and it doesn’t mean that I don’t love my cultures. I can hear those kind of musics, but please.. not to be heard all day two days long. I couldn’t sleep well eventhough I slept after Subuh (ha!). I slept only a while (just until before lunch) because once again, I could even heard the musics in my sleep. Beside I couldn’t turned my speakers on. If I did that, that would exactly mean I didn’t appreciate the ceremony. So I had to wear my headphones all the time, literally.

Talking about wedding, I couldn’t imagine myself caught in a marriage either, my marriage. It’s something that I haven’t thought of, though I also couldn’t imagine myself having a baby.

Am I strong enough to be the one?
Will I live to have some children?
– The Killers # Why Do I Keep Counting

Blessed them.

12 Responses to “A Talk About Marriage”

  1. Ina April 5, 2010 at 10:15 am #

    kebalikan lo Nad, gue uda mikirin konsep pernikahan gue sejak dahulu kala. Hahaha. Mikirin komitmen, tanggung jawab, dan sebagainya emang serem bgt, dan selalu gue hindari. Tapi mikirin warna, lagu, baju, dan hal-hal tentang perayaannya sangat-sangat membuat gue senang. Hahaha.

    • nadiafriza April 5, 2010 at 2:21 pm #

      bahkan mikirin warna, lagu, n baju nya ga pernah na.. mikirin nikahnya aja ga pernah apalagi mikirin acaranya… hehe

  2. hellgalicious April 5, 2010 at 10:36 am #

    Wahh ceritanya mau merit ya?
    jangan pake english doong

    gue ga ngerti
    hihihihi

    • nadiafriza April 5, 2010 at 2:25 pm #

      bukan gw yang married n belom mau married juga sih mas.. hehe
      ada google translator😀

  3. yoan sulistyo April 5, 2010 at 1:48 pm #

    suatu saat gwe akan buktiin ke lo nad, kalo “kesenian” di acara pernikahan justru hal yang paling menarik…hahahhaha!😛

    • nadiafriza April 5, 2010 at 2:27 pm #

      sebenernya gw gapapa yo ama keseniannya.. yang gw permasalahin adalah musiknya itu 2 hari berturut2, suaranya gede banget, ga berhenti2 bahkan ampe lewat tengah malam🙂 peace ah

  4. ImUmPh April 5, 2010 at 1:58 pm #

    Sabar… lagian ga tiap hari denger musik traditional kan! Jadi mending nikmati aja! akakakakakak

    Do’a untuk : Semoga cepet kawin! *kaburrrrr*

    • nadiafriza April 5, 2010 at 2:30 pm #

      iya.. kemaren itu mencoba menikmati dengan telinga tersumpal.. hehe
      waduh… di-amin-in ga yaa ituu.. haha

  5. pangeran kodok April 5, 2010 at 2:01 pm #

    wah… merit ia.. mmmhhh… kayanya gw sih dah mikirin konsepnya sejak gw kelas 2 sd ckck… kelas 2 sd dah pengen merit…

    • nadiafriza April 5, 2010 at 2:34 pm #

      wah jarang2 cowo udah mikirin married dari sd..
      btw salam kenal mas.. makasi udah komen🙂

  6. noitakarai April 6, 2010 at 5:58 pm #

    saia selalu ingin menikah dengan menggunakan adat jawa tengah yogyakarta untuk pernikahan saia nanti … kliyatan lebi indah dan sakral gt dengan beraneka upacara adat yang mengikutinya

    but same with you, saia juga ga isa bayangin bagemana jika saia menikah nanti . even ada keinginan untuk itu tapi keraguan masih tetep mengikuti ….

    • nadiafriza April 8, 2010 at 4:09 am #

      are you indonesian mbak?
      moga2 ragu2nya ga lama2 ya.. hehe🙂

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